Okay, naturally not many guys I know are literally BULLET-PROOF. It just appears to me that perhaps most guys have never learned to develop their "inner self confidence".
I'm not talking about "don't like the idea" or "wish it didn't happen"... I'm talking HATE here.
From a friend’s friend’s recent blog entry, it appears that he has encountered some sort of rejection, but what really baffled me is, why must he appears like the whole damn world is going against him? Though I’ve not personally know this guy nor meet him in person before, from most of his interesting blog entries, I had thought I know someone who’s fervent and been admired by his scrupulous attention to details… hmm… bad ideas to have left an unappreciable comment in his blog…I should have learned that most of us prefer to hear nice and soothing stuffs (even it means crabs!) and not some facts that hurt their ears, perhaps I should remind myself not to be so foolish and kpo again. Anything I wanna voice out, I rather say it here – my own blog, then deem it means no other people’s business.
Then again, I wonder… is it the idea of revealing your love to a girl and then having her REJECT u can cause a guy’s world to turn upside down and end in such a miserable mood?
Is it that most guys fear rejection because it lowers their self-esteem?
If u think that having a girl say “no” is frightening and cause u to lose confidence, then I bet u sure don't know what TRUE rejection is about. Maybe once a guy sees what true rejection is, he realizes how childish it is to be intimidated by those “no”!
True rejection occurs when a woman rejects a man with whom she has spent a considerable amount of time. It is the ultimate rejection because the man is dismissed due to his all-around identity.
My real brother had his heart ripped out by his first fiancée, who left him after six years of what he thought was a wonderful relationship -- now that's rejection. In fact, u would think that his self-esteem took a beating and that he has a hard time approaching ladies, but he talks to new ladies all the time. I asked him how he does it and he explained that once a guy get the ultimate rejection, everything else is like a walk in the park...
Wow... thats another nice write up... Who dun get rejected in his / her life? Even famous people will sure got rejected along the way. Whats most impt is are you able to stand up from that blow?
ReplyDeleteDon't be scare of REJECTION.
ReplyDeleteEasy said than done...
ReplyDeleteIsn’t it easy said than done? Don't talk about someone u know and going after her, even when a stranger we see outside and approach but kana reject, isn't it also rejection?
ReplyDeleteAgree with Kenny.
ReplyDeleteJojo, you girls are just lucky, even though it's the 21st century, but still the mindset is mostly guys approach girls and not very often the other way round. Maybe you girls just don't know how it actually feel to get rejected:(
That's also the reason why most of we guys choose to just walk away
ReplyDeleteSince u r praising this flen's flen, i guess he would have some talent in smthing or wat, and thus i guess he should have high self-esteem. Regardless of wat, everyone have his/her weakness. Since his world turned upside down, i guess this rejection has realli hit him on the bull's eye. Anyway, LOVE is all abt self esteem, yah?
ReplyDeleteI think u r right. Man is multi-faced and multi-sided. Hes onli been rejected for 1 or 2 sided onli. Hope he got more sides left. hahaha
Wow thanks for all u dudes' comments, it sure make me smile more to finally see more readers actively commenting here, I dun care even they were disagreeing views, just happy that u guys care and bother to share ur valuable views;) Keep that coming k;D
ReplyDeleteWell I deem discussion on this topic is yet closing. Okay, I do have some more views to make. Pls do stay tuned k:P
do not FEAR rejection.. easy come, easy go ^^
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