Familiar?
Bet most of u guys constantly hear your girls asking, “Dear, how do I look in this skirt? Fat not?”, then make u think u did something darn wrong when u tell her she looks just fine!
Even worst, if a scantily-cad babe happens to walk pass, and u just so nice happen to glimpse at her direction, Oh... u confirm die liao!!! She might unreasoningly get freaking upset and accuse u of ogling that "vain pop", even though I bet any guy who still has a pulse would dare done otherwise!
So why do u think she acts this way? & What do u think u should do?
Guys there wanna make a guess? or anyone wanna contribute your views?
I don't even want to give the picture a second glance. well, real men should always give comments/praises to their woman dressing even before they ask. being fat, then do some sports with her before freaking out of her weight. woman should gain weight only when their are preganant, the most beautiful form in their life.
ReplyDeleteTatically, men will still glance at 'deserving ogling ladies'. tatical is the skill, when get caught, just say you are getting her that dress.haha
haha... I do agree with some of ur views, Edward. Yes, guys u all should reassure & tell your girl she's beautiful before she even ask, and do it regularly of course;)
ReplyDeleteBut beware of ur tactical move lah, wouldn't that just put ur head on the chopping board? Come out with any excuse lor, u think we girls will buy it meh? :O
WALAO this pic super er xin lor... LOL
ReplyDeleteOMG!!! dunno wanna puke or laugh. So er lor... is she real?
ReplyDeleteReally HUGE man! Heavyweight SUMO!!
ReplyDeletejealousy?
ReplyDeletecoz the gf wans attention, and assurance
ReplyDeleteThis is really a BIG headache! Yes I really don't understand why u women ALWAYS like to ask that same question. Not just everyday, sometime can ask few times within a minute. U know we men sure answer U LOOK FINE, OK, why still ask & ask? It's so extremely irritating sometime.
ReplyDeleteIf it's assurance and attention u want, didn't u already got it? If it's jealousy, go do something to your own figure if u know u r fat lor
Just because u are a few years into a relationship, it doesn't mean that ur gf/wife doesn't need reassurance anymore. In fact, because u are a few years into a relationship, u have to work extra hard to let her know that u still find her attractive.
ReplyDeleteEvery girl subconsciously likes to compare herself with those other girls. She does so simply because she looks to u for clues about whether she measures up in ur eyes.
Even the most confident girl sometimes needs a little affirmation that u're interested in her all the time. In fact, all girls unfathomably want to be assured if her bf/hubby finds her beautiful all the time. When she asks you how she looks, she is not asking whether she looks presentable for that occasion, she simply wants to know and to be affirmed that she still ROCKS ur world.
With a little foresight and sincerity, u can make her feel infinitely more secure -- both about ur relationship and about herself. Compliment her and let her know that she still has it. Let ur visual choices tell her that she is always the only girl for u. This will reap rewards for u too -- it'll help keep ur romance alive as well;)
Neway, if u genuinely care about her, isn't it worth the extra effort?
I totally agree with Jojo's comment... Indeed, even when in the future when both are old, do remember to continue compliment her...
ReplyDeletewoman does deserve our affirmation, they look good for you or for themselves,as their man, we will feel proud. yah, woman should age gracefully also ...
ReplyDeleteso FAT sia...is that real haha
ReplyDeleteif mi become like tis how to enjoy sex sia OooOoopz juz kiddin but it reali disgustin leh hmmmm...