Should I forgive him?

Somebody emailed me this quiz...

Should you forgive him/her?

If you don't know whether it's time to forgive and forget the sins of your SO, take this quiz to get a idea.
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1. So. Just how badly did he/she screw up?

 Eh, not too badly. But people are still talking about it...
 Cheated, lied, stole and/or generally exploited. And not just once, either. 
 Pretty bad. He/she knew it was wrong but did it anyway. 

2. How have you been holding up?

 Oh, I've iced him/her.
 With the help of my best friend, it's been bearable. 
 Terribly! It's been constant pain ever since day one. 

3. So he/she just posted something on their profile saying they're sorry. What do you do?

 Nothing. A little suffering never hurt anyone, right?
 Let him make the first move, and maybe a little more directly. He ought to, anyway. 
 Write an email saying that this fighting should end. 

4. Do you really think that what he/she did was meant to hurt you?

 No, it was probably just stupidity and ignorance. 
 I still have no idea why it ever happened!
 No, but it was still really effective and inconsiderate. 

5. When thinking about the all the good times you had together you...

 Feel that things were different and better. 
 Good times? Not likely. 
 Think that we can have them in the future. 

6. What'll it take to forgive him/her?

 Umm. Time machine? Death Ray?
 Apologizes and them some, maybe taking me out to dinner and buying me pretty things. 
 Apologizes, means it, and improves. 

OK I did the quiz & the RESULT....

Should you forgive him/her?

Well...


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No matter what happened, forgiving people is good for both you and everyone else. So of course you should forgive this person. However, you still have alot of negative feelings toward this person that need to be resolved, expressed and taken into consideration. In any case, give it some time and who knows, maybe things'll be better after everyone has had time to cool down and think about things. 

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Hmmmmmm....... should I?

That was how I felt... and this is how I feel..

At this point in time, im now writing as way to release the emotions that try to overwhelm me, though someone says it’s complicated, nevertheless, I don’t care whether it’s understandable nor readable, as long as it releases my anger, hurt, disappointment, love, lust, anguish… just wanna release them all in my writing now. 

As u read my blog now, know that that is how I felt at this exact moment. And that this too shall pass and tomorrow could be the same or totally and completely different…

Pain in my heart...

I deal with only truth, yes though sometime truth can indeed be very painful and make one loses direction… but still that passes and life goes on… isn’t it?

 

Yet tell me, why is it that these lies seem to haunt forever and never-ending?… and u just know… u just know u never really quite get over them……

No more sure...

Still have yet figured out myself… who really m I?…

Just realise… afterall… I really m perfectly imperfect! Aren’t sure of who I m and had thought I was sure of he whom I so trusted & loved, but now realise m so unsure who anyone else is…

Teardrops get in my eyes...

Countless of sleepless nights passed… really feel so heartache... so tiring…

Still couldn't get myself to believe... nor accept that truth...

That truth?!!! Sh*t... it's so choking in my throat... never even ever crossed my mind b4 he could do this to me... for a guy who looks so innocent, anybody's first apportion blame would be I'm the bad girl! Who would even doubt his genuineness??

Now feel myself like a lost sheep having lost my way in someone else’s dream… 

…feel timidly petrified…what if this dream got awaken & I’ve still yet find my direction back to where I should belong?…will my soul be gone & never return?…

End of the matter...

It doesn't matter he whom I once loved was. 

It matters who I remember he was...