Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Should I forgive him?

Somebody emailed me this quiz...


Should you forgive him/her?

If you don't know whether it's time to forgive and forget the sins of your SO, take this quiz to get a idea.
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1. So. Just how badly did he/she screw up?
 Eh, not too badly. But people are still talking about it...
 Cheated, lied, stole and/or generally exploited. And not just once, either. 
 Pretty bad. He/she knew it was wrong but did it anyway. 

2. How have you been holding up?
 Oh, I've iced him/her.
 With the help of my best friend, it's been bearable. 
 Terribly! It's been constant pain ever since day one. 

3. So he/she just posted something on their profile saying they're sorry. What do you do?
 Nothing. A little suffering never hurt anyone, right?
 Let him make the first move, and maybe a little more directly. He ought to, anyway. 
 Write an email saying that this fighting should end. 

4. Do you really think that what he/she did was meant to hurt you?
 No, it was probably just stupidity and ignorance. 
 I still have no idea why it ever happened!
 No, but it was still really effective and inconsiderate. 

5. When thinking about the all the good times you had together you...
 Feel that things were different and better. 
 Good times? Not likely. 
 Think that we can have them in the future. 

6. What'll it take to forgive him/her?
 Umm. Time machine? Death Ray?
 Apologizes and them some, maybe taking me out to dinner and buying me pretty things. 
 Apologizes, means it, and improves. 



OK I did the quiz & the RESULT....


Should you forgive him/her?

Well...


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No matter what happened, forgiving people is good for both you and everyone else. So of course you should forgive this person. However, you still have alot of negative feelings toward this person that need to be resolved, expressed and taken into consideration. In any case, give it some time and who knows, maybe things'll be better after everyone has had time to cool down and think about things. 





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